How Much Do You Believe?

When we feel that we are taking control, we are on the path to great leadership

How much do you believe in your team right now? Do you believe in them as people or just in their abilities? The difference is, believing in them as people is an unconditional belief, and believing in only their abilities is conditional.

1. Believing In Your Team

The conditions are; “as long as they are good at the job, I will believe in them. If they are not good at the job then I will not believe in them.” When actually, as a leader we need to believe in the person, not the ability.

The general “rule” when you believe in a person is, you must have 100% trust in them as a person, and in their abilities. You must have 100% faith in them that they will do the right thing.

You must have 100% confidence in them that they will do their best at anything they do, whether that be a team effort or an individual effort.


Now, when you tell yourself you believe in someone, you must be honest with yourself. Thinking about your team members right now, can you honestly say you believe in your team with 100% trust, faith and confidence?

Whatever your answer to that question is, don’t worry because I believe something different. I believe that if you believe in a person, then you must 100% encourage them to do be the best person they can be.

You must 100% encourage them to work to the best of their abilities. You must 100% empower them to do the right thing. You must 100% empower them to use their own initiatives on tasks they have been set. You must 100% engage with them on a regular basis. You must 100% serve them as best you can.

When I was going through my engineering graduate training, my mentor Ron would constantly “show me” me who much he believed in me. He would do this by encouraging me, empowering me and engaging with me.

There were times I would make mistakes or I would be behind with my quarterly reports, but he would never judge me. He would simply continue to believe in me. So, Ron was inspiring me every time we met, and I would pay him back the favour.

I would do this by recovering from, and trying my best to minimise my mistakes. I would do my best to ensure all my reports, and evidence was on time.

I would give my very best in everything I did, and whenever I could go the extra mile, then I would for him. Now, because Ron inspired me and believed in me, I want to do the same with you.

2. Showing Your Belief

Whenever I led teams in my future leadership roles, I would ensure that I would show them how much I believed in them in the same way.

I would encourage them to be the best person they could be, I would empower them to do the right thing, and I would engage with them. Most importantly I would serve them the best I could.

In my most recent role working as a senior project manager for an engineering consultancy, I tried to show my belief in my team from the very beginning. I did this at the same time as I started to get to know them.

I wanted them to feel that I believed in them, so I would encourage them, empower them, and engage with them from the first day we met. Building a relationship and building trust would obviously take time.

But, a good start was them knowing and feeling that I believed in them, and what we could accomplish as a team. I had no grounds to judge the team from the very beginning, so the least I could do was believe in them.

What the team did in return for me was show me how much they believed in me. I could feel that the trust between us was starting to build. They did this by working together as a team.

They worked exceptionally well on their own initiative too, because they were empowered to do so. The work they did, and the results they achieved were excellent. The clients we worked with were very happy.

3. Empowerment

Believing in your team and showing them encouragement, empowerment, and engagement is a leadership principle just like any other.

You need to learn the principle, practice it and apply it every day, so that it becomes a habit. Do this in the same way as the other leadership principles you are learning.

I want you to unleash your team’s potential. I want you to do this by believing in your team the exact same way as I did. At present you might be judging them for mistakes they made, or if they’re behind on work.

However, this is because you already know them, so it will be difficult to turn that judgement around into belief at first. But, by working at it you will eventually turn that around. But, you have to start believing in your team right away.

Everything you are learning in throughout this site will help you encourage, empower and engage with your team. That is why I wrote this article, because I believe in you, and I believe that you can do the same for you team.

Encouragement is something that everybody needs, and to encourage a person doesn’t cost us anything. So, why don’t we do it more often?

This article and every principle I discuss is designed to help you encourage your team, and others the best you can. You can use these principles when encouraging your friends, and family too. They are not just designed for the work place.

4. Delegation

How I liked to empower my team was through delegation. This was especially easy in my most recent team at the consultancy. I would delegate to them a few times a day. However, when I first started delegating to one of my first ever teams, I would do it wrong.

I would delegate by telling them what to do. So, by doing that I was making myself responsible for the task I just delegated. I learned later in my career that when I delegate, I should tell them what needs to be achieved. By doing that I was making them responsible for achieving what I delegated to them.

My mentor Ron advised me that when delegating to a member of your team, they go through phases of delegation. They will either wait for you to give them directions, so they don’t take any responsibility, and you have to do all the thinking for them.

They will constantly ask you “what’s next?” which is their only responsibility and you have to still do all the thinking. They will start to make recommendations, so the responsibility is changing over to them, and they are now doing some thinking.

They will do what you have delegated and report right back, so they have taken full responsibility, and taken all the action. They will do what you have delegated and not come back until it is finished, now they are fully trusted and empowered.

Delegation is not easy, especially when you are new at it. There is an urge to hold on to certain tasks because either you don’t believe in your team, or you don’t trust them. That is what needs to be turned around if you feel that way.


This website will help you with that as long as you apply each principle. When you are delegating correctly, and you fully understand, that is when you and your team will be fully engaged. They will feel that you believe in them.

Highly effective leaders love to empower and engage their team. So, when they delegate they ensure that the team member is delegated what to achieve. The team member will then go away because they are fully trusted and empowered, and will not return until the task is done.

They do all the thinking, and make all the decisions because of your act of delegation. That is where you need to strive to get to when you are delegating.

I believe in you to do this. How much do you believe in your team?

When you realise that working with others will help you achieve a lot more than you ever could on your own, you are making a big step in your personal growth.

I welcome hearing how this post has influenced the way you think, the way you lead, or the results you have achieved because of what you’ve learned in it. Please feel free to share your thoughts with me by commenting below.

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All the best,

Tom (LeadGrowInfluence)

4 thoughts on “How Much Do You Believe?

  1. Success is a group effort as it is tough to go it alone. Others’ input, help, and advice add to our progress. Of course, discernment is necessary when evaluating any advice, but we learn much from others and become a better leader.

    Especially delegating low priority tasks is critical in allowing us sufficient time to focus on what brings the most results from our efforts. Thanks for these very useful insights.

    1. Hi Joseph,

      I appreciate your thoughts as always my friend.

      I am pleased that you found my article useful and I agree the importance of delegating to our teams, and doing it in the right way.

      Keep leading and influencing your people to be their best.

      All the best,


  2. Hi Tom,
    Thank you for a great article on leadership. I really like the overall sentiment of trust and believing in each other as the foundation for a great working relationship. So refreshing and a much more modern and – I believe – effective approach over the long haul than the classic “sharp elbows”, “go hard or go home” mentality that has been dominant in the world of business and leadership for so many years.
    Great pointers on empowerment and delegation as well. Very inspirational reading. Looking forward to diving deeper into your site.
    All the best,

    1. Hi Michael,

      It is my pleasure to share this article and thank you for sharing your thoughts.

      You are right that leadership is based on trust and believing in each other. If we don’t do that then it is impossible to lead or increase our influence with our people.

      Keep believing and keep building those relationships, which ulitmatley builds trust.

      All the best,


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