Putting Your People First

It takes character to put others before yourself, and do the right things for the right reasons. It takes courage to make the difference, especially when nobody else around you is standing up to the plate.

In 2008, I was beginning to deliberately adopt the leadership traits that you are reading in this article and in my other articles. One of the traits that I found difficult to adopt was “Have Courage.” I think a lot of people find this trait difficult.

1. Courage

As a highly effective leader, courage is a trait that you must have, and there will be times when you have to have courage in ways you never thought about before. For example, at times of change, highly effective leaders take the lead from the front and change what is required.

Leading by example takes courage, especially when you are leading without authority through changing times. I had to do this on numerous occasions, and I have worked with a small number of people who done this too when we felt the need for change.

The reason for this was because our teammates were not doing anything to change things, even though they were unhappy.

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Let me tell you a story to give you an example of this.

A friend of mine called Kevin worked with me in Liverpool for their train operating company. He was an outstation engineer, which means that when a train failed in service, he would attend the train to try and fix it, and get it back into service.

It was a demanding job because of the pressure from customers who were stranded on the platform, and were delayed in getting to their destinations. Sometimes he was hurled abuse from some customers.

There were even some dangerous situations, especially when the customers were football (soccer) fans. Anyway, Kevin had worked in the rail industry for about 20 years in 2010, so he had a lot of experience and knowledge.

The training for new and existing employees at our company was not the greatest in 2010, and there were a lot of complaints from people as you would expect. However, the people who were complaining had a lot of experience and knowledge too, and did absolutely nothing to change this situation.

The reason for that is because they were low performing leaders. They blamed the management and leadership for the lack of training, when they could have put a training package together themselves.

One day Kevin and I were having lunch and he asked me, “How are you getting on with your degree and graduate training?” I said, “I’m getting on fine, but I need to learn more about the engineering and operation of the trains. I don’t feel my knowledge is where it should be.”

So Kevin decided, “Right, after lunch I am taking you onto a train and we are going to start on building up your knowledge.” So, straight after our lunch that is exactly what Kevin did. He did this for a couple of weeks until my knowledge was in a better place.

2. Know What Kind Of Difference You Want To Make

I really thanked him for that, and I suggested to him that he would make a good technical trainer. And when I said that, he told me, “That is exactly what I want to do Tom.”

But, there was no position available or vacancy for a technical trainer, or any kid of trainer in our company at this point. However, this was a burning desire within Kevin and he wanted to change things to help out all of our teammates within our depot.

So, Kevin started doing to others what he did with me. He searched for people who needed to improve or refresh their knowledge on certain parts of the train, or in depot processes, and he taught them. He did this all off his own back, and people were improving.

But, most importantly people were happier that someone was training them. He was getting no extra pay or anything, he just did this when he had spare time in his day. Or, he would stay behind after work and teach. It was remarkable and very inspiring to see.

It was also very brave, because some people may have got the wrong impression and got offended because they had more experience than Kevin. The management and leadership may not have liked it either, but Kevin didn’t care.

He had the courage to do this, because he had the passion and the desire to do it. Performance of the teams was improving, and also the trains were staying longer in service without failing because they were being maintained better.

However, he had to keep this quiet at first because he wasn’t a qualified trainer, and the managers didn’t really know yet. Lots of the other engineers suggested to him that he should go to the managers and especially Kevin our director, and tell them what he had been doing.

3. Work Your Hardest

But, tell them with the recommendation that they make him the technical trainer. Now, this would take a lot of courage because he was doing this training without permission.

So, Kevin put together a document and presentation proposal which outlined what training he had been doing, why he was doing it (most important), and the results that the depot were having following his training.

He then arranged a meeting with the depot manager and the engineering director so he could present to them his proposal.

Kevin had not really presented before in his career, especially to a senior manager, and a director. So he practiced his presentation to me and a few other trusted teammates, and we all worked with him to make it the best it could be.

He needed to make a few tweaks to his presentation and his delivery, but nothing major. This would help him with his confidence, and most of all help him maintain his courage to go for this.

We were all behind him, and we believed in exactly what he believed. We believed that we worked for a great company, but we needed a new technical trainer and training team. We believed that Kevin was the man to do it.

It was a Tuesday morning, and this was the day of reckoning for Kevin to pitch his proposal to the depot manager Paul, and the engineering director Kevin. So, he went into their office, fired off his presentation to them confidently, and then sat down to be questioned.

The first question was, “Why have you been doing this, and why do you want to become technical trainer?” Kevin answered, “I first started this by training Tom Lawrence because he told me that he was lacking knowledge in the technical areas of the trains.

So I helped him. I have a passion for where I work and who I work with, and I want us to be the best we can be at what we do. The training facilities and trainers are not good enough at present, and I am the person to change that.”

4. Don’t Give Up

Kevin was asked a few more questions, and then was told that they would think about his proposal and get back to him. Two days later, the depot manager Paul and engineering director Kevin got back to him and agreed that he should become technical trainer.

Kevin was over the moon, he was ecstatic, and so was the rest of the depot. We were going to have the training department we wanted, and it was all down to our highly effective leader Kevin.

Kevin was a highly effective leader because he put his teammates and the depot before himself. He wanted to provide a platform for us so we can improve our knowledge, and most of all improve ourselves on being the best people we could be.

I will always be grateful to Kevin for everything he did to help me.

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When Kevin eventually took up the role as technical trainer, he created training packages and presentations for classroom training. These packages also included exams that had to be taken when the particular training package was completed.

The company put him through college so he could gain the training qualifications he needed. Then he needed to recruit a couple of people to help him put the training facility together. Overall, it was a huge success, and he is still working as technical trainer today and loving it.

A highly effective leader understands that they have the ability to change things for the right reason, at the right time. They know that do that takes courage, and a highly effective leader knows how to build up that courage and implement.

A highly effective leader doesn’t just make the decision to make a difference, they actually make that difference. It takes action not a decision to make a difference. It takes courage to make a difference, and it takes courage to be a highly effective leader.

If you think you have a weak leader, what are you going to do about it? This is your opportunity to take over and be the leader you wish you had.

I welcome hearing how this post has influenced the way you think, the way you lead, or the results you have achieved because of what you’ve learned in it. Please feel free to share your thoughts with me by commenting below.

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All the best,

Tom (LeadGrowInfluence)

6 thoughts on “Putting Your People First

  1. It takes courage and a strong character to be the type of leader who prioritizes their people above all else, regardless of circumstances. This type of leader never plays the blame game, but is instead in the trenches, getting things resolved.

    Such a leader earns the respect of their team and provides the type of service that customers value. Thanks for this inspiring message, Tom.

    1. Hi Joseph,

      I appreciate you sharing your insights on my post, means so much to me.

      A strong character along with courage is definitely required when putting your people first. Blame culture is one that a highly effective leader will get rid of ASAP.

      Respect is a two way street and must start from the leader, and I know you are the type of leader that gives your people the respect they deserve so they can give you the respect you deserve too.

      All the best,

      Tom

  2. Putting your people first is a powerful example of courageous leadership, where leadership is demonstrated through action rather than title. Instead of waiting for management to fix poor training, a team member took responsibility, shared knowledge, and created real improvements in both performance and morale. Their willingness to act without recognition, risk criticism, and work harder for the benefit of others shows that true leadership is about service, courage, and consistency. This highlights that meaningful change does not come from complaints or intentions alone, but from taking action with the right purpose and having the courage to follow through.

    1. Hi Saba,

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts on my post, means the world to me.

      Courage is one of the most important leadership principles we must practice every day as leaders, and putting our people first definitely does take courage as you say.

      I am pleased that my article has resonated with you, and I hope you keep putting your own people first and showing them how much they mean to you every day.

      All the best,

      Tom

  3. Tom, this story works because it is real. It is not theory. It is a gap in training, and a man who chose to act.

    I like how you show courage as action. Kevin did not wait for permission. He took you onto a train after lunch and started teaching. That is people first leadership in a practical way.

    And he did not stop at helping one person. He trained others, saw results, then did the hard part: he wrote a proposal, practiced, and faced senior leaders. He turned a quiet effort into a real system that helped the whole depot.

    Which moment do you see as the turning point: when he trained you, when he trained others, or when he walked into that meeting and owned the problem?

    1. Hi John,

      Thank you for sharing your kind insights on my post, means the world to me.

      I always do my best to share real stories so people can relate to them easier and they help them a lot more.

      I appreciate you pointing out parts of the post that people can learn more from, and I am glad you have learned and resonated from the post.

      Keep putting your people first and helping them in a similar way.

      All the best,

      Tom

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