Will Leaders Give Them The Answer?

Solving your team’s problems for them automatically makes you responsible for the problem. Asking them questions about the problem that will help them to solve it, automatically makes them responsible.

I like to talk quite a bit about asking questions of your team, rather than giving them the answers, and solving their problems for them. The reason for that is, questions is what a highly effective leader relies on. They use questions as a tool to get their message across to their people.

They use questions as a tools to gain buy-in from their people. They use questions as a tool to increase their influence with their people.

When I learned, and decided to stop trying to solve problems for my team members, I always had the same question to whatever their question was.

1. The First Question

My first question was always, “What’s the problem?” My team would get confused by that question because they think they have just told me. But, asking “What’s the problem?” made them think again and dig a little deeper.


I wouldn’t stop asking that question until they had thought a little deeper, and come back to me with the actual problem.

A lot of the time, my question should have been, “Who is the problem?” because the problem did usually start with the person seeking help.

The only real problem was, they didn’t know that they were the problem. And, they didn’t know that to solve the problem, they had to think a lot deeper than what they were thinking, or if they were thinking at all.

After a while, the team knew that if they came to me with a problem, I would ask them the same question every time, “What’s the problem?”

So, they did their thinking beforehand, and when they did that, they realised that they didn’t need to come to me anymore because they had already solved the problem.

I must admit, I did find it quite fun when the team would come to me with problems, and I would ask them, “What’s the problem?” because I would go and observe them thinking deeper about the situation, and it gave me a sense of pride.

2. Thinking Deeper

It made me feel good that I had prompted my team to think a lot deeper and solve their own problems. It was a very simple, but very effective thing to do.

When I was a leader of a team in the railway, we were responsible for solving train problems, especially when they broke down in service.

So, if I saw a team member trying to solve a train problem while sitting at his desk, I would change my question from, “What’s the problem?” to “Where’s the problem?” If they were going to get to the root cause of an engineering problem on a train, wouldn’t it be better to be exactly where the problem was?

When I asked the team that question, they knew immediately to leave the office and go to where the problem was. I used to do this myself when I was a young engineer, but in those days it was rare you could get out of the office because the manager always wanted to keep his eye on us.

However, a highly effective leader is very visual in how he/she thinks. That is why casting a vision of the future for the team is so important.

They also know how important it is to see a problem, not just rely on spreadsheets, data, and information being told or sent to them. Whenever I got the opportunity to see a problem, I knew I had a much better chance of solving it.

3. Solving The Problem

So, if you have a team member who is responsible for a problem, then you need to give them the best chance they can at solving it. That means letting them go to the problem.

Don’t keep them in the office so you can keep your eye on them. Give them the freedom, and the tools to solve their own problems, wherever they may be.

If you don’t give them this freedom and opportunity to solve their problems, then you will ultimately be responsible because you are responsible for your team member.

I liked to ask my team that when they think they have solved a problem, they should report back to me with a report or presentation. This would give me the opportunity to ask more questions, and get my team thinking even deeper, and assure me that the team have done everything they could.

The type of question I would ask during a presentation are, “How do you know that the problem is solved?” If they could answer that question well, then I was satisfied.

However, if they answered me with, “I just know.” Then that would not be acceptable. Especially if they had seen the problem and they were just relying on information passed to them by somebody else.

There are far too many big decisions being made in organisations that are based on poor data, poor information, and hearsay. They are the main problems in a lot of organisations throughout the world.

4. Big Decisions

Big decisions need to be made together as a team, and based on actually seeing and solving problems in the right way. We cannot make decisions based on gut feelings, or information we found in the system from a year ago.

I know it takes a lot more time to give your team the opportunity to solve problems correctly. But, take it from me, it takes a lot more time when you make a decision on something based on poor information, and you have to start all over again or backtrack.

Asking questions until you cannot ask anymore is the only way you can be 100% sure everything has been done to solve a problem.

As I have said before, when you ask your team questions, and you are helping them to solve their own problems, you are showing your team respect.

They will feel a lot more valued, and will follow your lead by asking each other questions when they are collaborating on problems. When collaborating on problems, and asking questions of each other, they are showing each other respect too.

Earlier, I told you that one of my old managers wouldn’t let me go to see problems on trains in service because he wanted to keep his eye on us. Well, this same manager would often ask us questions too. He would often ask, “Why are you doing that Tom?” or “Who told you to work on that?”

Whenever he would ask those questions, I would feel nervous or intimidated because what he actually meant was, “What you are doing is wrong.” Or, “I don’t want you to work on that.” So, they were asking the wrong questions.


When I started to ask questions, I had a completely different outlook. I thought like a child did. Why? You might be asking. Well, if a child asks you, “Why are you doing that?” they do not want you to stop what you are doing, they actually want to know so that they can learn from you.

That is exactly the frame of mind I have. I actually do want to learn from my team. I have no interest in getting them to stop what they’re doing, or telling them that they are doing it wrong.

When I explain to my team why I am asking them, “Why are you doing that in that way?” they are a lot more relaxed and open to explaining it to me. They know that I do genuinely want to learn from them.

It’s a great feeling when you begin to see your team asking their teammates the same kinds of questions, and because they genuinely want to learn. They do not want to stop them from doing anything, or blame them in anyway.

Problems are there to be solved. But, how do you solve a problem? Should you first see the problem before you can solve it? Or, should you work from information and data that you got from somebody else? It’s your choice.

I welcome hearing how this post has influenced the way you think, the way you lead, or the results you have achieved because of what you’ve learned in it. Please feel free to share your thoughts with me by commenting below.

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All the best,

Tom (LeadGrowInfluence)

7 thoughts on “Will Leaders Give Them The Answer?

  1. Hello Tom!

    I really enjoyed reading this article about asking questions to your team. It was really interesting to learn that you can be 100% sure everything has been done to solve a problem when you cannot ask questions anymore!

    Fascinating also the explanation you give about the difference between “What’s the problem?” and “Where’s the problem?”

    Thank you for sharing these effective tips on why a great leader should ask questions to help their team solve their own problems and how this shows their team respect.

    It is important that the team feels valued as you state it.

    Have a great day!

    1. Hi Anne Caroline,

      Thank you very much for your comment.

      I am very pleased that you enjoyed reading my article, and I hope you can put into action what you have learned.

      It sure is important that the team feel valued, so keep helping your own team to feel that way every day.

      All the best,


  2. Hi Tom,
    I believe every leader should understand what this.
    This is how you help people in life coaching too. You don’t solve people’s problems, you ask questions that help them solve their own problems.
    Like you pointed out, the idea is to get the person to accept the responsibility of the issue and then look at from a different perspective so they can come up with their own new solutions and hopefully… help them learn how to cope differently next time.
    Great article,

    1. Hi Greg,

      Thank you for your comment.

      I hope you share this article with your people so you can help them to understand and work towards becoming leaders themselves, and solve their own problems.

      All the best,


    2. Hi Greg,

      Thank you for your comment.

      I hope you share this article with your people so you can help them to understand and work towards becoming leaders themselves, and solve their own problems.

      All the best,


  3. I agree. I think it’s a good idea to go deep into the problem, to find the actual problem, Because from the initial discovery of the problem, you may not realize have found the actual problem. It’s kinda confusing but it’s all part of problem solving. And also it’s good that accountability is established to recognize one who will be responsible for that problem, and find a solution to solve it. All in all, this is a great article for leaders to refer to when things get rough within his or her team.

    1. Hi Madyibilg,

      Thank you so much for your comment.

      I couldn’t agree with you more that digging deeper and deeper into the problem is so important because you might find that there is no problem at all.

      Keep inspiring your people to solve their own problems with your help, and that they can help others to their problems too.

      All the best,


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